Drs. David & Debbie McFadden
Marriage counseling and couples coaching
Two therapists and relationship coaches, married to each other for more than 40 years. We meet with couples and individuals in person, by video and by phone, and your first 15–20 minute call is free.
I always, always believe there is a way to move forward.
The better friends you are, the closer you will be in your relationship.
Who we are
A lifetime of helping couples, and a marriage we have worked at too
We have spent our entire adult lives helping people sort out, cope with and learn to deal with the things life brings that cause pain, resentment, hurt and distrust.
We are not only a walking example of how to make a marriage work; we are very practical with our advice, so you can see results and feel the one thing everyone longs for: hope.
Hope is a very big word, but that’s what we’re going for.
- Yes, your marriage can be saved, if you work on it.
- Yes, couples can survive infidelity. Again, if you work on it.
- Yes, parenting can get easier (although your kids are with you for good, so there’s no magic there).
- Yes, single people can find a loving, intimate, passionate love that can last a lifetime.
- Yes, it’s all possible. It just takes effort, and that is something you can do.
How we can help
Coaching for couples, and for each of you
Sessions with the two of you, often with both of us; or time with David or Debbie on your own.
Couples coaching
Both of you, often with both of us: four people in the room, a man’s and a woman’s view, so each of you is heard and understood.
Coaching with David
Recovering after an affair, restoring a broken marriage, grief, and the big decisions and transitions of life.
Coaching with Debbie
Friendship and closeness in marriage, parenting and grown children, the empty nest, and growing older together.
How it works
A practical, directive approach
We will not just sit, nod and ask you once in a while how you feel. We take the lead, give you clear steps, and stay with you while you take them.
A free call
A 15–20 minute phone or video call. We tell you how our process works, and you come away with what you need to decide.
Your story
We take the time to get to know you, understand your story and what you really want and need.
A plan and practical steps
We take the lead: clear options, specific steps and, often, homework between sessions.
We stay with you
You take the steps; we stay alongside, debrief what you tried and fine-tune it together.
Celebrate the change
We help you notice and celebrate your successes and the change you came for.
Who we work with
Couples, and people who want their relationships to be better
Couples
Whether things have gone quiet and boring, arguments keep escalating, or trust has been broken by an affair. Or you have a good marriage and want a great one.
One partner, on your own
Wanting to make your relationship better even if your spouse is not joining in right now is a goal we can work on with you.
Parents and families
Colliding parenting styles, parenting alone in a marriage, in-laws, and letting grown children go so they have the best shot at a good future.
Single people
Yes, single people can find a loving, intimate, passionate love that can last a lifetime. It takes effort, and that is something you can do.
Training and experience
Two doctors of pastoral counseling, married more than 40 years
David is a marriage and family therapist who ran a counseling practice with several locations for decades. Debbie is a licensed therapist and life coach. Together they bring a man’s and a woman’s view to every couple they see.
Dr. David McFadden
Marriage and family therapist and relationship coach
- Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy
- Master’s degree in Pastoral Counseling
- Doctorate in Pastoral Counseling
- Decades running a counseling practice with several locations
Dr. Debbie McFadden
Licensed therapist and life coach
- Master’s degree in Education
- Master’s degree in Social Work
- Doctorate in Pastoral Counseling
- Mother of four grown children, grandmother of many
If next to me is the best place to be, you’ll always be next to me.
From our articles
Writing on marriage, parenting and love that lasts
Your marriage as a parent
5 Ways Being A Parent Can Improve Your Marriage & Make You A Better Human Being
Dr. David McFadden ·
Parenting can take its toll on a couple, there are also some great perks in that role. No one is ever fully prepared for what becoming a parent…
Thriving as a couple
The 8 Qualities Of A Great Couple
Dr. Debbie McFadden ·
If you want to be more than just an “ok” couple, then you will need to develop certain qualities or characteristics that will make you a great couple.…
Can your marriage survive?
9 Of The Best Marriage Survival Tips
Dr. David McFadden ·
Does your marriage have a good chance of making it? An article in Time Magazine in 2016 reported that the divorce rate in the US is at a…
Where we meet
In person, or by video and phone wherever you are
In person
By appointment in Linton, Indiana:
3584 N 1425 W, Linton, IN 47441
By video or phone
On Zoom, wherever you are. All you need is a computer or phone and an internet connection; there is no cost to sign on.
Sessions
Usually an hour. Longer, more intensive sessions can be arranged when you need them.
Free consultation
Take the next step
Call 630-333-3202 or send a short note for a free 15–20 minute phone or video consultation. We’ll tell you how our process works, and you’ll come away with what you need to decide how we can best work together.